Ladies, you always have to be careful when it seems like your #guy might be playing childish games with you.You have to decide if you want to go down that route,or leave it alone altogether.Well, if you doubt your man and want to know if your man is a cheat, here are some signs to know if your dating a PLAYER!
1) He Never Calls
Most people would rather text than call nowadays, but that special someone should want to call to hear your voice! If he doesn’t call very often, that’s one of the bad signs he’s a player.If he makes excuses via text like “I’m busy” all the#time, then he doesn’t really care about communication and communication is key. If he’s careless with that, there may be some other lady he’s not calling too.
2) Lack Of Transparency
If he’s not clear with his intentions, then that shows that he has a lack of respect for you. Not only that, but he also doesn’t value that in you either. It doesn’t matter whether he wants to be your friend, friend with #benefits, boyfriend, or date, he should always let you know what your relationship to him is.If he doesn’t, then it’s safe to assume he’s playing games that you might not want to willingly participate in.
3) Obvious Flirting
I believe that a #little bit of flirting is healthy for a relationship. But, when he goes overboard, and it borders on glaring, it becomes a pretty big problem.He should be courteous enough to keep it within boundaries and not upset you in the process. If he gets defensive or angry, then he obviously doesn’t care about you or your feelings to consider the reason you were mad in the first place.
Does he like showing #affection in public? I’m not talking about the making out kind, but the kind where he holds your hand, or gives you a peck on the check. If he doesn’t want #people to see you guys together that way, chances are, he has been or might be doing the same thing with someone else.
5) Any Pictures Together?
Are there pictures of you two on Twitter? Facebook? Instagram? If he refuses to put up pictures on social websites while you are constantly uploading the cutest pic, it shows that you guys have a different view of your relationship. He might think it’s a casual thing, while you’ve put your heart out there. He might even be brushing off your #relationship altogether!
6) Lots of Female Friends
If he’s popular with the ladies, he’s probably handsome, charming, and he knows it. He may use this to become friends with the ladies, and maybe something more. Who knows if he is truthful about what he does with those friends.
7) Words And No Action
He always knows the right thing to say, even when the problem you guys might be having is him ! If he always knows what to say in order to get you to forgive him, he may in fact be playing you. He knowswhat you want to hear and is using that to his advantage!So, if he says sweet nothings, and doesn’t follow through, chances are, they are just words that makehim #look good.
8) Doesn’t Try To Understand You
When you are dating a guy, should he want to know something about you? Shouldn’t he try to understand your moods, your thoughts, how you feel and what makes you tick? If that isn’t the case with this #guy, not only is he treating you like crap, but he could bea player!