The article was written sometimes last year but I decided to share it again as a result of increase in cases of heartbreak which happens as a result of cheating in relationships.
Have your ever wondered why most guys cheat? I think I have got some answers for you on the reasons why I think most guys cheat.
Have always been wondered why most Guys cheat and I am quite sure a load lot of Ladies out there must have been wondering why too. It always surprises me when I see Guys having smooth relationships with charming and beautiful ladies only to later find out that the Guy is cheating on the Lady and it is as a result of this that I decided to write this short article titled
“RESONS WHY MOST GUYS CHEAT”. I hope you will enjoy it
According to a survey I recently conducted, I have come to realize that 79.6% of guys cheat on their Girlfriend just for there (3) reasons and the reasons are as follows;
My statistics shows that 18.4% of most guys cheat as a result of personal decision. The decision could be as a result of imitation and societal or environmental Factors. Don’t let us forget the fact that our society has a great influence in our lives and such society includes Schools,clubs,forums just to mention a few of them.
If a man should find himself in a society where men cheats, he might also decide to give cheating a try. We all know cheating is a “badt man” thing and most guys want to give it a try. The only way I think a guy/man can guide against this is to be self determined and self diciplined. If the two SD’s (SELF DETERMINED AND SELF DICIPLINED) can be put in place, then you can be rest assured that you are not tailing towards the path of cheating.
My statistics also shows 39.7% of guys cheat due to pressure. Pressure could come in different forms. The pressure could be from friends or colleagues but mostly it is from friends. If a guy rolls with the flirt type of friends,one way or the other he would be forced to join the league.
This is a common phenomenon because no matter how holy you are,you will always have some set of people in your life that are dear to you heart and yet they are the type of friends that can make you tail towards the path of cheating bt only God can help in this situation.
For an instance, a guy dated a lady right from their Pre National Diploma days (PRE ND)and the relationship was still intact even after the completion of their Higher National Diploma (HND) without cheating on her but due to pressure from friends, he decided to cheat on her Girlfriend. His Girlfriend got to know that her B.F is cheating on her and she couldn’t withstand it and as such their relationship crashed just like that.
Imagine the years they’ve been together and imagine how the whole stuff came to an end. To really guide against this,only the two SD’s earlier stated above can help you out.
If you will agree with my statistics,41.9% of men cheat for no reason . You see most of the Guys keeping as many Girlfriends as possible only for you to later realize that he has a girl somewhere he is having serious relationship with. Funny enough, if you ask them the reason why they are cheating, the popular response you have from them is “I SWEAR I NO NO BUT A FUN SHA”.
Imagine doing something without having a cogent reasons for doing it because if I have to steal I believe there should be a reason behind it and if there is none, then you must be suffering from an undisclosed illness.
With all stated above, I believe you must have found an answer to your questions. Though the article might sound childish but believe me, it is the real cause of most of the mishap you see in some relationships both in the married couples or the youths.
You must have been wondering why I didn’t include guys that cheat because their GF is not the serious type. I know it happens, but in the case of this article, I am only discussing about those who have nice, beautiful and charming lady as there Girlfriends and yet still cheats.
Take note of the two SD’s (SELF DETERMINATION AND SELF DICIPLINED) as stated abovr and you will never cheat on you Girl. If you are SELF DETERMINED AND SELF DICIPLINED and yet you still cheat, my brother you are born to cheat and only God can deliver you.lol